Domestic and Narcissistic abuse
Domestic abuse is a profound violation in a relationship where various forms of behaviour is used (physical, emotional, coercion, isolation and intimidation) to gain power and control over an intimate partner. The consistent climate of fear, unpredictability, and control can lead to complex trauma, emotional numbness, hypervigilance, and a deep, often hidden, disruption of the victim's sense of self and safety.
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Narcissistic abuse is a pervasive pattern of emotional and psychological mistreatment inflicted by an individual with narcissistic traits (e.g., grandiosity, lack of empathy, need for admiration and control). This form of abuse subtly and systematically erodes a person's self-worth through tactics like love bombing, gaslighting, manipulation, criticism, and triangulation. The victim is often in a state of chronic confusion, anxiety, self-doubt, struggling to distinguish their reality from the abuser's fabricated narrative.
In NLP
Using powerful NLP techniques, I coach clients to identify and dismantle the internal maps of control and fear that were established during the abuse. We focus on changing the sub-modalities of painful memories, lessening their emotional charge and re-establishing personal boundaries, desirable future, breaking free from the past narrative and reclaiming your ability to make sovereign, empowering decisions for your life.
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NLP provides powerful tools to dismantle the cognitive and emotional architecture of the abuse. I will coach you techniques and provide you with tools to re-anchor your state of self-worth, shifting away from the trauma bond. By identifying and reframing, you will adopt your Internal Reference System, moving from relying on the abuser's validation to trusting your own intuition and reality, thereby reclaiming your authentic identity and emotional freedom.
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Reminder
Your power was never lost; it was simply misplaced in the noise of someone else’s fear.
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​The story you tell yourself about what happened is the only part you get to rewrite—and that story begins with your power, not their playbook.
